Dating a younger women can extra-exciting for an older guy, and it’s accepted as a normal and regular part of dating life for many men. If you’re a man 30+, I’ll give you some tips and pointers on what not to do when dating a woman 5+ years younger than yourself.
Generally speaking, I’m talking about men between the ages of 30 and 49. Even a guy in his 50s ca follow my advice and happily date a younger woman. As long as the woman is of legal age she’s good to go. Here’s the mistake list. Proceed carefully with your fresh, young thing
1. Don’t try to act younger.
Don’t gross her out and dress or act like a 22 year old. Sometimes I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s and it’s a sorry site indeed. Once in a while they visit clubs or college campuses to find younger women to date, and make jerks out of themselves.
She will like you better when you act your age, and act cool and non-creepy. If you’re really good looking, you can overcome the age factor and be very appealing to younger women. Carrying on and acting younger shit isn’t necessary.
2. Acting too sexual too fast is creepy.
It doesn’t look good on older guys trying to hit up much younger women to get too sexual too fast. If you’re much older than her, wait before you start talking about how hot her boobs look or tell her you want her to sleep with you. This is just creepy, and she may be worried about her safety. Instead of coming on too strong, you need to be a confident, safe older guy. Focus more on being more classy and confident.
3. Ignoring or Neglecting Your Personal Appearance
Some older guys think their personal appearance can be ignored, and they will look just like a 25 year old. It’s more likely there’s hair growing out of their noses and ears and their waistline isn’t what it used to be.
Dressing like crap at age 25 is not as much a big deal as it is for an older guy. If you’re middle aged, hitting up 21 year-old women, you’re going to have to improve your game.
You must take better care of your physical appearance than when you were 25. This includes your body and clothing. Place a higher priority on these things if dating much younger women is something you’re interested in.
4. Stop dating older women. Just because you have attracted a younger woman, it doesn’t mean that women your age should be overlooked. A woman at any age can be fantastic, and you should keep your options open an expect to date women of all ages. Younger and older is fine, depending on the woman. There is no reason to limit yourself to one or the other.