If you’ve not dated for a while, there’s a chance you’re not up on the new rules of dating. The good news is that I’m going to explain them to you right now.
The rules chance sometimes because they just weren’t working anymore and need a refresh. That said, it’s time to retire a few obsolete dating rules, and you will need to know what’s changed if you want to win. Observe these new rules for a better chance that you’ll score again and again.
New Rule: Women will be checking you out.
Women want to see what you’ve got to offer, and will be busy ogling your equipment. Most women would probably dent they stare at men’s bodies, but take it from me, it’s a lie. Studies using eye-tracking technology have shown that women are actually more likely to have wandering eyes than men. Women actually spend less time looking at a man’s face, and their eyes moved more quickly onto his other body parts.
This doesn’t mean you can freely start doing the same. Women like to be admired, not gawked at, so look at her breasts or legs with appreciate, but don’t dwell on them. You might as well show off your assets and show her what you got. Wear shirts show off muscles (if you have them), and don’t be shy about using your jeans to show off whatever nature gave you.
New rule: Mobile dating is accepted and often preferred.
Online dating made it easy to find lots of women to date. Mobile dating apps allow you to connect with who’s online and in your area, improving the chances you’ll locate a date quickly, and could turn every night date night. It helps make dating more spontaneous also.
This means you should always be ready to date, and keep a change of clothes and toiletries handy at the office. You never know what’s in store, so being clean and sponge-worthy has its benefits. This way, if a woman who’s actually way out of your league happens to be in your vicinity, you may get super-lucky.
New Rule: Sexting is in.
Telephone dirty talk was sexy, and sexting can be even better. It is often more spontaneous and fun when you see her response via video. Always let her set the sexiness level, and don’t get carried away and go beyond the dirtiness she’s into. If you do, you risk turning her off and ending the conversation.
New Rule: Dating Several Women.
In your mom’s day, a man would be expected to date one woman, and being a player was out. Now the rules have loosened, and you have more choice. Online and mobile dating have given men more options, and it’s perfectly acceptable. Mobile dating allows you to see as many women as you can fit into your schedule, so you have an active dating lifestyle. Sounds great, but realize the same rules apply to women. She may be rotating her dates, and you’re Mr. Tuesday night.
If you want to avoid getting a bad reputation, don’t multi-date on a single night. Be sure not to maintain your dating schedule with other women at the same time you’re on a date, and make sure you keep up and take notes of who’s who so you don’t use the wrong name. This can elevate to a complex social life, so keep track of who she is and other info so you don’t make an ass of yourself.